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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]- goes on work trips and do not miss at all
- overall resentment towards him in general, no romantic or warm and fuzzy feelings 
- do not want to be touched by him 
- do not feel at all loved by him

This is years after him making decisions that showed he prioritized the family the lowest compared to his extended family and his job. Is this it, time to leave? we have kids [/quote]

I guess you have to weigh how well you think he'll take care of the kids when they're with him (their ages matter) against how much you can't stand being around him. Then there's the money aspect as well.

I don't think I could be in the same house as someone I resented so much, but I also can't stand conflict (although I'm a lawyer). Yours is maybe borderline? Not missing him shows you're detached but I could live with that. Overall resentment - would that fade if he wasn't in the same house as you? For the sake of my kids, assuming it was best for them, I could probably live without romance or warm and fuzzy feelings although there would still have to be mutual respect and like - I couldn't have disdain present with my kids in the house. Not wanting to be touched, seems like I could live like that if we were really cordial/borderline friendly. Not feeling loved, same thing. I'd hope to never feel any of those things, but our friends are getting divorced and it made me think about how much I'd put up with for my kids. My tolerance is pretty low and my husband and I definitely argue but we do not yell, call each other names, etc.[/quote]

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