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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We can’t give you advice. It depends on your financials. Take into consideration that:
- a private college for 2 kids is 800k easily 
- no court would force him to pay beyond a cost of a community college. College funds are joint property subject to division not kids property 
- if you are in your 40s alimony will very minimal and only for 2 years
- child support by the formula will not keep up with inflation

Then see if you have means - any pensions, assets, a good job etc.

The younger woman would fight for access to recourses sooner or later and he would want a divorce. Don’t gift her these resources and consider your husband merely a source of income for you and the kids.

It’s very easy to find someone on a side for a woman - act with cold head and in the best interests of your kids.

Dating sucks and men out there will de just like your exH [/quote]
You’re assuming the DH will want to stay and that it’s OP’s choice whether to remain. She should still get her own advice in case the new pu$$y dazzles him enough to up and leave. [/quote]

I said the same - the new pussy (if not current then the next  one) WILL fight for husbands resources and he WILL want a divorce at some point. But if assets are great enough to split, he might just prefer to live separate lives without divorcing. Since he declines to acknowledge the affair, it seems that he prefers marriage for now.

Of course she should get advice but I summarized it all above. [/quote]

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