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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My very attractive divorced friend who only wants casual gave up on online. When she's in the mood, she just walks into a bar. Over time, she's come to prefer them young. Easier to control is her rational after some bad experiences. So college bars. Sometimes hotel bars. She never sees them again. [/quote]

Women have now reclaimed the "going young" trend post divorce long dominated by men. Bravo![/quote]

I'm a divorced man in his 50s. I live close to downtown and like to do stuff in the city. I find most women in their 50s are a little too suburban and domestic for me.  They don't enjoy the city lifestyle the way I do.  But every once in a while I come across a 50 something woman's profile that seems like a lifestyle match. One woman and I texted a bit.  She'd been in a punk band when she was younger.  Then she got a PhD in clinical psychology and became a therapist. We made plans to meet for coffee but then she cancelled because she was sick.  A few days later I went to my favorite coffee shop, alone, and saw her on a date with a guy in his 30s.  At first I thought he was her son but then I noticed she was eyeing him in a sexual way, touching her hair in a flirty way, and just giving off the vibe of a woman who thinks a date is going really well. At that moment I thought "now I know how all those angry 50 year old women feel about guys my age dating younger women." I felt a little deflated.  But good for her!  (I think she lives near me because I also saw her on another date, with an attractive woman--she said she dated men and women.)[/quote]

It's a phase that's all. Younger men can make older women feel more desirable. It's as simple as that. These women know this is temporary. A 60 years old woman is not going to have a bunch of 30 years old men running after.

There is also an element of control at play. An older woman is probably accomplished and has a lot going for herself. It's attractive. A young man can be attracted to that.

It's not love. It's romance. It's fun. They are just enjoying life. They are not delusional that these men are going to introduce them to their family to marry them. It's a transaction that benefits everyone. The woman gets amazing sex. The guy gets amazing sex as well from a woman who is liberated and most importantly a stress free relationship. She is not going be jealous. She is not going to text him 10 times a day wondering where he is who he is with why he didn't pick up his phone etc. [/quote]

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