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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My husband is the score keeper, blow up at being “wronged” type. But I don’t get it because his blow ups 99.9% of the time make things worse for everyone including him. It’s not strategic at all.[/quote] My husband is that way too. It has led to 100% of the drama and tension in the family. As soon as he feels "wronged", someone else has to pay, and dearly, even if the trigger was initially of his making. People like this are emotionally stunted, and sometimes on the spectrum. My husband is on the spectrum. Please work on yourself to not be like this, OP. It can poison a family's dynamics. Go to therapy if you have to. No one is trying to wrong you. That's the first lesson. My husband took a very long time to come to grips that no one was out to get him, and that neither the kids nor I were deliberately riling him up. [/quote]
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