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[quote=Anonymous]Therapist here. Actually she does kind of sound like a borderline personality disorder, especially the parts about not being able to keep a job and not being able to maintain stable relationships and what you mentioned about how she handles perceived criticisms. That doesn't excuse the bad behavior. If your husband thinks she is worth keeping around because of the quality of her work, he needs to set limits with her as far as her interactions with him and others, focusing on specific behaviors and maybe even having a behavior contract with her. Then again, as someone who is self-employed, maybe this is too much trouble to go to for someone who can be replaced. People with BPD can be very high functioning and successful in work but usually not so much in terms of relating to others and can be very exhausting for the people around them. [/quote]
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