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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Call him out. Tell him you see the pattern that he is conveniently sick whenever he has an adult responsibility to handle and you're not accommodating it any longer.  And he needs to cancel his mom's visit because you're not carrying the water for that. [/quote]

This. If he's really too sick to do the bare minimum, then he is too sick to be around his mother. So he must call her and cancel. The only solution is to call his bluff, OP. Let his mom experience the behavior of THE SON SHE RAISED.

If he had got off his bum and prepped the guest room before the last minute, this would not be a problem, would it?
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No, but even then we’d still be behind. There would still be other commitments he’d made to do this weekend that can’t happen Monday/Tuesday and that can’t be done tomorrow because places are closed, like bulk trash drop-off. His work travel had him departing at 8 am on Sunday so I was the lone adult for half of last weekend, so we have plenty of other things that I couldn’t do alone.[/quote]

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