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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don’t think a belly button is sexual. Nor a shoulder. I let my dd wear these things because she’s comfortable in her body and I never was, I’m glad she has that confidence. If  another kid gets turned on by her shoulder that’s not something I can control. People have foot fetishes but we all wear sandals and flip flops in the summer. [/quote]

Ok keep telling yourself this while the boy moms think your daughter looks like a ho. [/quote]

Uhhh mom of a middle school boy here.    Definitely would not think this.  In fact,  was reading this trying to figure out why off the shoulder was such a big deal.  A midriff shirt I get, but off the shoulders?   [/quote]

You think it’s ok for anyone to have their behind cheeks hanging out of their clothes at school or anywhere besides the beach for the matter. No one wants to sit where people have their bare behinds on the seat. I bet they won’t even sit on a toilet seat. It’s gross and not appropriate to walk around almost naked in public. It’s just not. [/quote]

This isn’t what the OP is describing or what most posters are talking about. I’m quite happy that gold hinge, aerie and lululemon have built in shorts under their skirts. My kid and her friends all wear what OP has described and none of them have butt cheeks hanging out. And their cropped tops are fitted and generally the belly bottom is covered except when they raise both arms. Frankly, girls showed more in 1985 with daisy dukes, jeans skirts with no shorts underneath and the cropped tops were loose and open as opposed to fitted athleisure. I wasn’t a whore in 1985 and neither is my 13 year old in 2025. And given that 80% of the girls at her middle school of 1100 kids look like this, most parents have gotten comfortable with this look. If you don’t want your daughter to wear this stuff, that is fine. [/quote]

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