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[quote=Anonymous]I don't think therapy will help him and he doesn't sound depressed. He sounds like my ex so I'm applying my own lens to what you shared. I'm an extrovert. My ex is an introvert. Your dh is isolating you. No I don't think it's conscious on his part. He sounds like a classic covert narcissist. They hide behind a facade of introversion but their end game is control. You know something isn't right. Like your relationship, mine was fairly low conflict most of the time, except when it wasn't. How does your dh react to criticism (from anyone not just you?) Does he accept responsibility or is someone/something else always to blame? I think you should start with therapy for yourself. I thought my dh was a saint who put up with me. Everyone told me he was a saint. Good manners in public don't a saint make.[/quote]
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