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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's now been 1 year since I have been divorced and I am honestly enjoying being alone. I no longer have to abide by some rules from someone who thinks our household has to be led according to their rules. And I can go to bed whenever I want and have undisturbed sleep. When I am out late at work or on a business trip I don't have to to worry about someone swearing on their end that I am cheating despite having never cheated. I can go on and on.. We have 50/50 custody. When I have my kids we have a better time together. My son is a teenager now so he is in his own universe. My daughter is 12 and she really loves me and I love her equally. The time we spent together now is more fulfilling.

I guess some people want daily sex, I don't. It has not been difficult for me to find an attractive woman that was willing to sleep with me. I have a friend who calls me when she wants some and i call her as well when in need of sex. I just won't get into a relationship with anyone.To me it's not worth the hassle.

Some people thought have amazing relationships and I hope it stays that way for them. But for some of us I wonder if we are being forced into a companionship/relationship because that's what adults are supposed to be in....

Is companionship overrated?[/quote]

Depends on your nature and your companion. You could be a married to a saint but yourself be a bad partner and after breakup feel happy and never realize that problem isn't companionship or the companion but you yourself.

Some people aren't cut out for responsibilities and teamwork. They can't care for others and if put in such equation, want out. That's why knowing yourself is as important as knowing your companion. [/quote]

Some people can care for others, and we've been doing it our whole lives, and we're done.  The last thing we need is another person to take care of. Being alone means not being a caretaker. [/quote]

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