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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m with you OP. I’m still married as my kids are young, but I’m absolutely miserable. Counting down the years until I can get out and be on my own. My husband is a narcissistic abuser, I get nothing from him but financial security and maybe the thought that our children will have an ok life (but they won’t because of his abuse patterns). I hate how my life has turned out and wish that I could get out every day.[/quote] Oh yikes. Order the book Splitting. It's a guide to divorcing a narcissist and it's very helpful. The "financial security" is (probably) not worth your sanity. I'm not saying run to a lawyer and file for divorce right away but staying with this person even though you have young kids is going to kill you slowly. Wish I could give you a hug. Also wish I had gotten out sooner, so I understand your POV, but I did not identify my ex as a narcissist until our kids were grown.[/quote]
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