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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I mentioned a few times before, but let it go.

For sure, kids and work add stress elements. And I could make increased efforts household chores. However, I want make sure intimacy is meaningful for her.

Is it possible to bring intimacy up, subtly and without pressure, while addressing other possible contributors?

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You are ignoring the elephant in the room. If sex is not pleasurable for her then she has zero incentive to participate. [/quote]

+1.

I could suggest the book “Come as You Are,” but I doubt your wife would follow the advice suggested in the book if she has never even had a single O in her life, so the otherwise-great book won’t help.

Just buy her a V. Even CVS sells “wand-type” V’s, and you can pay cash if you are embarrassed. Or Spencer’s gifts.  Just do it.  Wrap the box up as a present (make sure it’s fully charged first).

Pleased don’t feel threatened if she prefers to try it alone.  Maybe, if you are lucky, she might later get more comfortable incorporating it later into lovemaking (you might try encouraging her to try that).

Hopefully she takes the gift the right way:  you want her to have something devoted singly and solely to HER pleasure, you want her to be happy, and you feel her pleasure is important, because you love her.  [/quote]

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