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[quote=Anonymous]It’s a cycle of abuse, even though you are an adult, she still sees you as a child and her property while holding the roof over your head as her only control left. My advice would be to change your behavior by how you react as she only knows what gets you and will not change. I almost feel she gets satisfaction cutting you down. It’s called being a hearteater. I wouldn’t give her the reaction she looks for. Walk away, hold your cool, do not let her see that it bothers you (don’t make eye contact and leave the room). By not getting a rise out of you, she might tire and maybe she will see you differently. I’m the mean time, save and try to move when you are able and don’t be around so much - go out and enjoy and do what makes you happy.[/quote]
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