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[quote=Anonymous]We have a trust for our kids and it says that the money in the trust can not be distributed to any children born outside of this specific union. We agreed to have both our retirements beneficiaries the trust. So if we need our retirement to live we spend it but if we die with a retirement left over the money goes to the trust and to our children. We had written agreements while married that we would each pay 1/2 of the children's college. You can have it written that if children born outside of your union that your children will have equal monetary benefit. Of course that is not lawyer speak. My SIL had college loans after her father abandoned them and he paid for his new kids college, she sued and he had to pay for her college. Her lawyer said now it is common to make a statement about current kids having the same treatment as new kids. Have them agree to pay 1/2 of all medical expenses and make it so they don't have to agree to the medical treatment like saying they don't need braces. [/quote]
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