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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Mom of two boys. I was also extemely disappointed when I found out that they were boys since I never wanted any boys. I would never say this out loud to anyone, but since this is an anonymous forum, I'll say even now that I really still am deeply sad that I miss out on the experience of having a daughter. Both times I allowed myself to openly cry to my husband for a couple of days after we found out the gender, but then I dropped it. I don't ever complain about it any more or ever let anyone in my family know about it. I think your husband needs to cheer up for the sake of everyone else in the family and you have the right to tell him that his disappointment is hurting you and he needs to be more supportive. [/quote]

Me too. I am madly in love with my sons now but it was rough when they were still inside me. I still wish I had a daughter but I don't wish my boys away. People can love their children and still wish they had had a different experience. Life is complicated.[/quote]

I'm a mom of two girls. I have to say, I really didn't care too much before pregnancy what I had and am happy to have the girls, but I think it would be cool to have a grown son. I don't know, just have another guy looking out for you. Sons can sure love their moms![/quote]

Thank you (I'm the "Me too" poster). Thanks for saying that. You have no idea how many people say some variation of "Woah, two boys, ugh, your house must be crazy!" when they hear I have two boys. It makes me feel so sad for them, like people think they're "less than." I wanted girls more than I can say, but now when I look at my sons, my good, kind, sweet, thoughtful boys - I feel so much pride and joy. Thanks a lot PP. I'm sure your family is lovely too. We are all so lucky.[/quote]

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