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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Where are you looking for or getting valiudation from men? Online?

It doesn't sound like you really interact with people. I am sure people have initiatiated conversations with you...but then you have to do your part to stay engaged and continue the conversation. And that is just to get started interacting. [/quote]

No im not online. I dont go out of my way to get any attention. I just crave it.  Im so jealous of everyone who has it easy when it comes to having friends etc [/quote]

OP, I'm an introvert who was bullied all through school - K-12 - by both schoolmates and family. I went into adulthood with the mindset that nobody ever wanted to be associated with me, because that's how it was for me as a child. Having friends has NOT come easily to me - I've had to learn from mistakes,  be friends with people who give a lot of grace, and work really, really hard at it. Like, I have stood a block away from a party I'm attending and cry out the stress, before wiping my face and going in. I have had to call one friend to give me a pep talk to go meet other friends. Making and being a friend takes concentrated effort. [/quote]

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