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[quote=Anonymous]I think you definitely need therapy - it can only be helpful to you!

OP - I suspect you have a lot of great qualities, but you are kind of telling yourself "no" on many fronts before anyone else even gets the chance to meet you.

I really encourage you to try working with a therapist- sometimes takes a few to find the right fit, persist.

Re: looks - those are a "door opener" but I bet all of us on this thread can tell stories of someone we became attracted to NOT to do wtih looks - as we gradually got to know them. I say all this to emphasize - even if you are ugly (and I'm sure you're not) - even then - there is a match for you. But I think some therapy and exploration here will help.

The thing with therapy is it will work better if you become an active partner in trying to do some effort as guided by your therapist to make change - so you will have to do work to make it work.

I believe there are bright moments ahead for you OP - I wish you success, and I acknowledge your frustration. Sending a boost from suburbia.[/quote]

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