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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think the idea that a spouse needs to be on their phone all day while they work is nonsense.

Everyone should be able to go hours without being on the phone with their spouse without being accused of infidelity.

You should focus more on your clients instead of being on your phone all day to show you aren’t cheating. [/quote]
You sound like a simpleton. Pretty much 99.999999% of white collar professionals in DC  (is that still an OK descriptor?) glance at their phone literally every 10 minutes, if not morseo. The casual relpy-when-you-can attitude is not accepted. We all KNOW you are looking at your phone.  So, when a text or email isn't answered, we know it was a choice. They could answer, but they don't.

Guilty, all day long.[/quote]

Impressive, how you conducted detailed research to reach your oh, so confident "99.9999 blah blah percent" figure!

You're projecting, PP. You even admit it: "Guilty, all day long." You might be guilty of being obsessively glued to your phone, but not all of the rest of us are like you. Certainly nowhere near 99.9999999 whatever.

"When a text or email isn't  answered, we know it was a choice." How dramatic. Sometimes, a personal text or email doesn't get answered because the recipient was actually paying full attention to work. Like grown-ups often do.
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+1

There seems to be an influx of women with non-essential jobs here who play on their phones all day, every day, and project that expectation onto the men they date. Some of us do real work, or if we don't, at least try to find ways to stay busy and productive at work... i.e. not scrolling social media all day.

I seldom use my phone around others at work, and even in the privacy of my office don't rush to check texts if I'm in the middle of a project. If there's work to be done or ideas to be had in how I can benefit my team, then I'm acting on it.

The women with the "counselor's" mindset are extremely paranoid, overbearing, and insecure. If a man thought this way, accusing his spouse of cheating because she didn't respond during a 20 minute huddle, he'd rightfully be called the same. They also fail to realize that cheating men can and will respond to your insecure texts... while getting some action. Takes five seconds.[/quote]

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