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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My issue is that I'm not on the will. We are equal income earners, and our contributions will likely go out once his mother passes away to around $750-900/month.[/quote] I remember your posts. It seems like you have the personality/tendency to want to look ahead into the future & figure out how everything should go. You are now projecting when MIL will die, and how much you & DH will be contributing to the cabin very specifically ( $750-900 a month). I think you are getting ahead of this unnecessarily. MIL could live in AL for 10, 20 years (ask me how I know). So many things can, & will, change in the next year, 5 years, 10 years - for her, you all, the sister & brother, the property, etc. If you are ok with the $150 monthly now, pay it. Cross the $750/900 bridge when you get there. My advice - This may all be sand in the hourglass, so don’t get too set on any plan. [/quote]
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