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[quote=Anonymous]I guess I can see both sides here; I wouldn't want to travel with my new husbands extended family right after getting married either lol. But it seems like this trip was already planned, he was aware, etc. I'm also concerned you'd marry someone with such extreme issues you described. Why would you want someone to come on a trip if theyre going to be a jerk about everything? Especially since you seem like a pretty avid traveler. All that said, I think what I would do here is go on the bucket list trip. If he wants to join, great. I'd probably try to convince him to come, because I'd assume (maybe incorrectly for your spouse, but for mine) that he'd be resentful at being left behind. Plan some downtime for him/you both to get away from your family. Go on this trip, prioritize couples trips going forward.[/quote]
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