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[quote=Anonymous]I’m 20 years in. My guess is we will explode after my last kid leaves for college. That’s a long way away. He’s emotionally abusive. Sometimes kind but usually not. I just hold it all in. I will not divorce him because I do not trust him with the kids alone!!!! He’d feed them and get them to school but he’s the type that won’t pay the bills or sign them up for anything and then get mad that there are fines or the kids miss out because HE was late. He wouldn’t get them help for adhd for example. Won’t help with homework that he disagrees with. He teaches math the way he thinks it should be for example. He is better on antidepressants but if I left, he’d stop taking them. My oldest knows how tough things have been. One day he will explain how things really were to my youngest but for now I’m just doing my best to keep it all together. [/quote]
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