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[quote=Anonymous]I'm a man and SAHD. I see it like this: Before there were any kids, there was just you and him. It may be difficult to keep up your pre-kid routine, but you need to do your absolute best. Having kids may be as much of a strain on you as it is him and (I know for me) sex is the ultimate stress reliever. Being denied it, just compounds the stress even further. So many relationships fail after kids and I really think it's due to the mentality of "I'm tired because we have kids." If he's not pulling his weight, then that's a different issue altogether. But my opinion is that a happy marriage is one where sex is abundant. No one should be denied that in a marriage (there are exceptions of course). It's the one thing you can't get from someone else (at least you shouldn't). I can talk about my problems to anybody. I can share a laugh, but sex is between me and my wife and if she isn't giving it then that's a problem. Just make him do all the work and lay there and take a nap if it sucks. Now if he's a crappy lover then that's his problem. [/quote]

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