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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is very kind and generous of you! Can you ask the regular caregiver about their routine and what tips and tricks they can offer?   [/quote]

I don't think that will be enough from my own experience. OP has the best of intentions which is clear, but have you ever tried to move a loved one with this stage of dementia to another environment? The level of agitation could make you lose your mind. They need their environment. Maybe there are comfort objects she can bring to help, but I would reach out to her doctor. Do you have written permission to speak with medical people? You may  need a medical plan if there is a high level of agitation. Is there anything short acting they use with this age group?

This is why I get so upset when I see people on here warning against memory care. It is sometimes the safest environment. I know OP's loved one is on a waitlist which is great. I think we really have to be careful on here urging people to do only what the parent wants and even have another relative take care of them. I can only imagine how burned out the relative who is primary caregiver is and truly sometimes Memory care is the most humane and safe option.

Please keep us posted OP. I hope all of us who have BTDT are wrong and it goes smoothly![/quote]

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