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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m sorry you are hurting OP. I just want to comment on one specific aspect of this, your kids. I have been a HS teacher for 17 years and teach many students from troubled backgrounds. This experience has shown me that those who make the efforts you have truly do impact future generations positively. Your efforts are very much not in vain. Your kids have a better life than you did already, because you have offered them emotional security. If they are middle school or teens you likely have some rough years ahead due to the ups and downs of that life stage. But even so, I consistently see that teens with even one parent like you land on their feet eventually. I go out in my town and I see my former students every day and let me tell you it is amazing how resilient they are. When one generation tries to be better it does matter. A lot. Incremental change over generations means that people can end up having very different, very much better lives over time. You should applaud yourself for everything you have done for your kids. Their lives won’t be perfect but they will be ok and that’s because of you. Hugs to you,OP. Please be kind to yourself if you can. [/quote] Beautifully said[/quote]
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