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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My sibling manipulated my parent into changing their will to favor my sibling. This sibling had already exhibited bullying tendencies for years, so it really wasn’t hard to just stop having anything to do with her.

This situation with my parent’s will caused me to look back and realize that this sibling had always been a bully, but was outgoing and “charming” to people who didn’t know her well. It was really only to family, and especially me, that she showed her mean and very unpleasant side. It took years for me to recognize this, though. 
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I could have written this!  Same kind of sibling - oh so charming to others. Like you, it took years before I finally had enough - especially when sibling did not close out parent's estate as listed in the will, took expensive things they were not entitled to, and didn't divide some assets as designated. It wasn't worth fighting over.

I cut sibling out of my life years ago and have zero regrets. [/quote]

PP here. Yes, it takes a while to realize that someone is like this. And yes, no regrets about not having her in my life. I made a decision not to talk behind her back and I know that she badmouths me to others, but I just ignore. People who know me know that she is not telling the truth, and laugh with me about the things she says, so there’s that. Just glad not to have to deal with her. 
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