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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Human culture is hierarchical. Many if not most are nicer to those who rank more highly and less so to those lower on the totem pole. The women (and men—this goes both ways) who aren’t fawning over the person they are dating are seen as higher ranking. Everyone wants that thing they see as almost out of reach. Someone who does everything they can for you is not seen as that person. Was it Chaplin who said he didn’t want to be a member of any club that would have him?[/quote] That exactly reflects my most recent experience. A guy was going out of his way asking out, calling, giving small gifts, trying to invite me to his party to meet all friends, even offering to loan his posh car when mine was under repairs. I only knew him for a few weeks so I partially accepted it, but gently delayed bigger advances like loaning his car. We didn’t have sex, but I told him I would be interested in a forestalled future, if we exchange tests…. He disappeared in a week. Not sure, maybe it has nothing to do with me not accepting material things and he got offended ( or maybe his test didn’t clear…) [/quote]
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