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Reply to "Wife and I have dramatically different opinions about how much financial help should be given to adult kids"
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[quote=Anonymous]Assuming shared/bio kids: 1) at least 50% of college costs, ideally 100% 2) not necessary but it’s nice to do. 3) not necessary but it’s nice to do if your kids are good (work hard, appreciate you as a parent etc). I’d give my kid at least 20k to help. Assuming they are not your bio kids: - fully depends on how long you’ve known them. If you’ve been married 10+ years and raised them, they are effectively your adopted children and are just as important as bio kids. If you’ve only know them less than 5 years and aren’t really their parent then I’d say you’re not obligated to help with 1 2 or 3. [/quote]
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