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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. And I mean this kindly, or not (take it how you wish), you do not know our relationship and the reasons for the gaps in time. We have a very good relationship but they live 10 hour away and they travel a lot. They have a lot of activities and friends still. They are very busy. Too busy to come visit us very much.

And fwiw, I forgot that my DH did see them briefly this summer (briefly b/c THEY were busy and didn't make a lot of time for him while he was there - which is FINE.) But to somehow imply that we are horrible for not seeing them more is not accurate or right. A large part of the reasons we dont see them more i they are very busy. And that's great. But it's also why we are so suprised about how his physical decline has accelerated.

And honestly, when someone comes asking about opinions like this, the judgmental responses are uncalled for, unappreciated, and just nasty. But, I guess I should know better on this site.

Oh well, as I'm not getting any helpful insights, I'm out. Flame away. It's what y'all do best, apparently.[/quote]

You are contradicting yourself big-time. If they are so busy and traveling and engaging in so many activities that they don’t have time to see you then they’re obviously fine so what is your problem. You just don’t like the way they look?[/quote]

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