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[quote=Anonymous]I didn’t. I don’t find it weird or creepy when friends do. It also doesn’t bother me when people address me by dh’s family name (which is also the kids’ family name), or when we get the rare (now) holiday card addressed to the “dh’s family name” Family. It’s hard for people to keep tabs. The only instance when it bothered me, was when the college DH and I attended started listing my name on mailings as “DH and Mrs DH”, some time after I indicated in alumni questionnaire that spouse is also alumni (I didn’t updated my name with them). I am alumna in my own right and effort, I still use the name they knew me by when I attended, didn’t request the change, so thought it’s really weird when someone there assumed that just cause DH also graduated from same college that I automatically am ok with them changing my name on mailings.[/quote]
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