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[quote=Anonymous]No, I would tell them myself that I need at least one Holiday at home every year with my children to create my own traditions. Discuss with your husband beforehand to receive his agreement that he will back you up in front of his parents. No one can accuse you of not being generous and tolerant over all these years. And if someone wants to criticize you, do NOT let them. Smile warmly in their selfish, pouty faces, stand up straight, and say kindly that you have already done this for X years, and it's time for your own traditions with your children. Smile, thank them for hosting all the time, so generous and family-oriented, sparkling conversation, really we're so lucky, such gratitude, sincerity oozing from every pore. But now we're spending some Holidays at home. [/quote]
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