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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would only agree to lower child support if he gave up time. [b] It will benefit your kids because they won't have to go back and forth as much.[/b]  The disruption in their lives is not worth the extra money, and it's not like he won't be in their lives, [b]just not an exhausting (for the kids) back and forth[/b]. [b] They will do better in school, sports, etc[/b].[/quote]

these opinions may be true for some kids and families but it is not a fact of how it will be .

My child does very well in school, is well adjusted,participates in multiple activities, and has been unaffected by the back and forth. If anything i things hes better off for it. since both parents get breaks neither gets burnt out.

its not exhausting he has his own space at both homes, his own toys, bed, clothes, etc.  I dont see why its harder to go one place then another.

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Disagree completely - every effort should be made to include 2 active parents as much as they can and desire to do so.  My ex refuses to co-parent with me on anything & rarely communicates with me on much of anything.  Almost all my exchanges are through natural intermediaries-- but otherwise I don't see why custody would or should be reduced.[/quote]

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