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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm so confused.

"I was a perpetual source of negativity over their life and I had come up with one excuse after another to justify my misery."

"asked if I was going to hurt them"

It sounds like you DH not DS is tired of your angry and overbearing outbursts with your "teenagers" and want's you to calm the F down. He also sounds like he's scared of you and doesn't like the threatening tone you use with the teenagers. He's also tried of the fact you spread your negativity and misery throughout the rest of the house.

My suggestion would be to LISTEN to what he's telling you here, get some some anger management, some therapy and have some patience with your teenagers and him before he files for divorcee. He sounds pretty fed up with you and your attitude and how it's bringing the whole house down.

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+1  Especially because OP says himself that spouse is stoic and bottles things up and OP just says every negative thing he thinks.  So if the spouse has been listening to OP be negative for years and bottling it up, and then finally loses it and says all of the above - in what world does them finally speaking up make OP, who has been saying negative things all along, a victim?[/quote]

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