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[quote=Anonymous]One of my grandmothers was mentally aware enough to refuse treatment for a GI issue (that would have resulted in a feeding tube). She died within 24 hours of that decision, in a hospital. The other grandmother had dementia and when she stopped eating and drinking, she moved to inpatient hospice. She lasted about 10 days but was not responsive for the last 7 or so. They gave her scopalamine patches for the dry-mouth side effect so she wouldn't gag or choke on her drool. She got morphine to ease any pain or shortness of breath. It was hard to watch but also mostly peaceful, and a relief to know that her years of fear and confusion and sadness were coming to an end. OP, I hope whatever happens with your mom you're able to feel like you helped her carry out her wishes, and that nothing was left unsaid between the two of you. I hope you both feel loved and cared for. I'm sorry you are going through this and I wish you peace. [/quote]
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