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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think Parent A should establish a bedtime that allows the child to wake up at a time that allows them to travel from either house. Then I would vote for every Thursday, and every other Friday and Saturday night. Or every Thursday/Friday. Either way weekends are shared equally. [/quote] That’s absurd and kid get no time with parent. [/quote] What I am saying is if kid needs 11 hours of sleep, and needs to wake up at 7:00 a.m. on Parent B days, then Parent A needs to put them to bed at 8:00, so that their biological clock is set to work at both houses. Yes, maybe it's annoying to have to wake up at 7:00, but you do what's right for your kid, which means facilitating things going smoothly at Parent B's house so that connection is strengthened. If Parent B has agreed to 2 nights a week, then having 2 weekday, and 2 weekend nights over every 2 week period is what makes sense. That way parent B gets to know about things like HW, and meets the teacher, etc . . . and also has a chance to do fun weekend things. Whether that's Th/F/S one week and just Th the next, or Th/F nights (until late Saturday) every week, probably depends on both how it's written, and on activities. [/quote]
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