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[quote=Anonymous]It sounds from what you wrote that both you and your DD were overly invested in the playdate, a problem stemming from too few social opportunities.  I would prioritize increasing the pool of kids and moms you all have to socialize, this will both normalize and take the pressure off of individual friendships as well as give you both more experience and comfort with playdates.  Doing this through choice of neighborhood/living situation is great if possible.

The best thing at a young age (IMO) is to live where many spontaneous interactions can take place in a neutral space (playgrounds, sidewalks, courtyards). At an older age, proximity to others is important but having many interests and activities overlapping builds community, trust, and comfort.  Kids knowing each other over time through pool, sports, school, church, neighborhoods, art/music class, scouts, etc.

Above all, success in these realms takes time, patience, a light hand, luck, and a setting that facilitates interactions.[/quote]

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