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[quote=Anonymous]Ohh OP, am so sorry to hear how bad things are at the moment. 😢

It all sounds so overwhelming to me!

Yes, therapy cannot change the circumstances that you are facing……but it can help you deal w/it better.

Can you talk to someone at work who can help you possibly outsource or alleviate some of your job responsibilities?
You can even state that you are going through some health issues w/both yourself as well as your Mother.

Can you also do the same w/your providers?
Or possibly find new ones??
Being an advocate for your own health is very important & sometimes you need to go above + beyond in order to receive the care that you deserve.

Your husband sounds like an extra stressor imo.
Would he be willing to attend marital counseling w/you in order to address your current marriage concerns?
If not - then you might want to take a step back and look at your marriage w/a new perspective.
Perhaps it may be a good idea to consider divorcing this person who is verbally abusing you (which IS also a form of DV.)

Finally I would try to invest less of my time w/my Mother if I were you.
I am not encouraging you to abandon her during this difficult period at all….
Just to spend less time w/her as her behaviors toward you are negatively impacting your quality of life.

Wishing you the best soon![/quote]

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