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[quote=Anonymous]I know a guy from HS who got his girlfriend pregnant at 19. I don’t see this as a moral failing so much as being the statistical outlier regarding pregnancy prevention. Or maybe they were sloppy about birth control. I have no idea, but I don’t think a decision made at 19 is reflective of who someone is 20 years later. He and the gf broke up, but he went to college close by to help raise the kid who is now grown. He’s gone on to marry although they don’t have kids (late 30s now so maybe they aren’t planning on any, I have no idea). But he’s a good guy and I think it’s short sighted to write off unwed parents as a whole without even getting to know them. Plenty of divorced guys with kids from planned pregnancies are jerks. Life doesn’t go according to some script.[/quote]
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