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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I agree with you OP. There’s no good reason for a responsible mature adult to have a child with someone they never married unless they are European and long term partners. Your values will not be a match.[/quote] My European DH had a ltr, but I would not have married him if he had a child in a ltr, though I'm not even sure I would've married him if he had been divorced with a kid. I get that sometimes birth controls can fail, but as an adult, you must know that it could happen. So, you're consciously making a choice to accept that you could get someone pregnant. I guess I'm a bit more traditional in that way. I was 30 when we started dating; he was 36. I guess if I was 40, I'd feel differently since the dating pool shrinks. There's just too much baggage around all of that.[/quote]
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