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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I respect your test and think these are good standards.[/quote] I [i]suspect[/i] your test and think you've posted here just to stir the pot and start a debate about "gender roles." On the slim chance OP is for real, and not just a troll: OP, anyone who sets tests like this for others truly needs to get out of whatever general dating scene you're in (apps?), find a group or organization with a strong focus on your desired "traditional" roles, and find dates there. I am intentionally NOT adding "church or faith community" to that list because my own religious denomination has bucked your desired gender roles for many years, thank God....You need to get out of the regular dating market and narrow your dating pool to men who are looking for those gender norms from [i]you[/i] as much as you're wanting it from them. And then you won't be wasting other people's time, like you did with this guy.[/quote] I’m a real person it was a real date. Yes, the last relationship I had was a real life intro. But we just don’t meet naturally as many people and this guy seemed decent on the app so I agreed to his date I’m looking for equal partnership but also an understanding from a man of equitable nature of relationships. [b]Fair and equitable doesn’t mean splitting everything 50/50 and keeping scores[/b] Besides, all my friends who are not even romantic with me would pay if they were inviting. I tend to surround myself with successful and generous people who fight for the right to treat others [/quote] It's true that fair doesn't mean everyone gets the same thing; it means each person gets what he or she most needs. But OP, if you cannot see how your "test" is the very definition of "keeping score," you really don't get the problem you've created for yourself. Again, consider dropping the general apps and finding a dating pool with trad men. I'm serious. There surely is a trad man/trad woman app out there somewhere. Save others the time and "test." [/quote]
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