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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I met my H on Bumble. I had zero problem with messaging first. The issue was that most men don’t really have anything to message about - profiles are generic, sparse, negative, etc. I would only message men who had something worth talking about. My H was into birdwatching, I’m into birdwatching, so we connected over that. Wanna post your profile here and we can give feedback? Based off your post I’m betting quite a bit of negativity comes across in your profile. Complaining isn’t sexy. [/quote] Congrats, you messaged first. Stop thinking you represent all women. So many women never went to open first. That's why you have the absurdity now taking place on bumble and why the company is in the proverbial toilet tanking and not making any money. [/quote] Just a guess, but women probably aren’t messaging you because of your attitude. It’s terrible. [/quote] Except they do on other platforms, so your hypothesis sucks.[/quote] Yup for sure it’s the attitude.[/quote] Yes, you can tell someone's attitude on a platform you won't even engage on first even though it is required. You are quite dim. [/quote] Yep, you can. If your attitude comes across this poorly on DCUM, it comes across on Bumble. Bumble is a platform where women can be extremely picky. You aren’t getting messaged because your profile is either bland or your attitude comes across. I mean, you’re insulting random strangers online who are trying to help you. You’re the definition of a “nice guy” who puts on a facade to get laid but is a raging, entitled POS underneath. Women on Bumble don’t tolerate that. But hey, sounds like you’re killing it on Tinder and Hinge, so stick with those. Bumble worked very well for me and I’m happy it’s set up the way it is.[/quote] Real woman here who met boyfriend on Bumble and said women who message to say go to OnlyFans are looking for clients. Bumble was the only dating platform I was on. I tried others and hated the messages I got from men. I liked it because I didn’t have to wade through a ton of stupid messages. [/quote]
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