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[quote=Anonymous]She hasn't found her people yet because most girls conform unfortunately.  And I can tell you from having two teens.  The first that was a bit socially awkward but knew who she was even with barely going out in HS, and having just a few friends, and the second that always conformed, wanted to climb the social ladder, and seemed popular, skated between friendships and relationships and had a much harder time in HS.

What people look like on the outside a lot at school aren't who they are.  And most people that talk negatively about others are only doing to boost their own low self esteem.  And there are many girls who aren't happy conforming and do it anyways.

My suggestion is to find a few people she likes in her clubs, or start a new club and have Friday night hang-outs at your house.  She is comfortable there, can control the environment, and maybe just do simple fun things will make her feel more comfortable with some girls.  And the ones that come.  That want to come are probably in the same boat she is.  [/quote]

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