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[quote=Anonymous]So she's not asking for help? If not, I wouldn't go too far. You could share info w/ her. "Hey, I thought of you when I saw this program, and the grant opportunity that might cover the costs. Thought you'd be great at it, but take it or leave it as you see fit." And I wouldn't go much beyond that unless or until she specifically asked for it. Maybe a really helpful thing is just to listen to her and give her a space to vent. Maybe a helpful thing is to support her desire for a large family and respect that and her right to chose a path with multiple part-time gigs if she wants. Maybe a helpful thing is to honor her dignity and independence by not leaning into trying to help her... [/quote]
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