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[quote=Anonymous][quote]Can you elaborate more on what you think is going on with these friendships? - OP[/quote] Answer from poster 12:41. I have gotten better, more confident about (what I consider boundaries) emotional boundaries. Meaning, it has become more important to me, in the last decades, that others make an almost equal effort. Slightly less effort is ok, but a lot less effort is not ok. I try to adjust my expectations/effort to what works mutually. To better match their effort. Otherwise, I'm resentful. Nothing kills a relationship more than resentment - I'd rather step back and keep stepping back until the relationship is balanced and works, on some level.[/quote]
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