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[quote=Anonymous]She's watching how you respond to the world and acting accordingly. I watched how my sister passed on her fear of heights to her daughter. I told her what she was doing and how. She still labeled her kid as having a fear of heights. Just like you labeled you kid as a perfectionist. When her kid is with me there is not a fear of heights. When she's with her family she has that fear - it's like she gets rewarded for it in a way. My guess is your kid is being rewarded by you for behaving this way. Don't worry though, you will have loads of mental health problems in 10 years because of this.[/quote]
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