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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, look at her actions. She prefers to hang out with your sister and her family. She doesn't make the effort to visit you or your family. Knowing that, accept these are the choices she makes year after year, and make your own choices. Still visit her? Meet in a third location? What isn't going to change anything is you spelling out how her behavior is hurtful to you. But consider that you might feel better saying it.[/quote] good points. She has been here before. She isn't allergic. But she simply doesn't enjoy all the activities we do. We go to the lake - a lot, we shop, eat, play cards. I want her to know why we're stepping back so I'll tell her. [/quote] Face it, OP: you're enjoying your *hurt* role in this sad dynamic. There are lots of workarounds here but you've chosen the victim status.[/quote]
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