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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]When my DD first started having a boyfriend over, at 15 1/2, I'd make pop visits to the basement. "Oh hi, don't mind me I just need to get something from the freezer" visits. Now that she's 17 I really leave them alone. Condoms are always in supply in the basement bathroom.[/quote] This is kind of how it goes. At a certain point, do you really want to catch them? No, you don't. If you have to go down there and you suspect they are fooling around. You make a lot of noise. We never allowed my now college DD in her bedroom with BF, door to basement stayed open, but I didn't check in on them after they'd been dating 1 year plus and were 17-18. She was on BC, I knew they were sexually active. I didn't invite him to family vactions, no sleepovers, but lots of "watching movies" that I didn't police. Start stricter to set expectations that it's not a free for all. Then as time goes on, you adjust.[/quote]
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