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Reply to "Mid life. Does anyone believe in love anymore?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes I think people our age still believe in love. But a more seasoned mature view of it. We know that limerance is not love. We know that limerance fades. We know love like loving our children, which is so deep, and so shallow hookups can't possibly be love. We know that finding a deep love that lasts takes a lot of work and sacrifice. [/quote] Maybe off topic but is unconditional love like that for your children also found in a significant other? [/quote] No. And I think a big sign of maturity is acknowledging that you will always need to earn love and that the love you give should also be earned. The only people who will ever love you unconditionally are your parents. You need to work for the rest. There's something to the idea that you never stop trying to get that other person to fall for you, even after you've locked it down. But that's a sustained, focused effort that many aren't up for, even if they think they deserve unconditional love. [/quote]
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