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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You lucked out! A man who has not dated 2 years post-divorce wow. Take is as blessing. It’s not even a gender thing to be honest. Anyone who has gone through a divorce and did some introspective thinking will take a long time to go back on the dating market. There are exceptions of course. For instance, I would totally understand an abused spouse who is divorced to want to be in a relationship sooner.[/quote]

49 year old woman here. I was an abused spouse and it took me 4.5 years before I was ready to date. Was working on myself, dealing with an ex who still abuses me, and focusing on my kids. Did OLD for over a year and recently deleted all my accounts. Took too much of my time and mental energy to match with people, chat and/or meet and be ghosted. And the quality of men is seriously lacking. One was a flat out racist (asked me if my kids were white), another tried to kiss me three times on a first meet up, and the rest were not emotionally intelligent. I’d love to have regular sex but it’s just not worth it.[/quote]

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