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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP - No, we don’t like it here, it’s not just the HCOL. Otherwise we would be more comfortable accepting the help. Parents know we want to move away and have wanted to for years. To the PP who mentioned entitlement - yes , it’s a privilege my parents have the money to give. I don’t think we are entitled to a gift but I am surprised that they are willing to give a big gift only if conditions are met. It’s a weird dynamic. Paid for our own education as well so this is the first time a situation like this came up in our relationship. [/quote] They're not stopping you from moving. What are you waiting for? They are willing to make your life easier if you stay so they could see you more often and take the burden off. But they don't seem willing to fund your search for greener pastures on a whim. So take a pass on the offer and keep doing your own thing.[/quote]
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