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[quote=Anonymous]In the hopes of helping others prevent some of this stress, I will say your heart was in the right place, but it's important to think about breaking the cycle. If you continue down this path, you do to your kids what mom did to you. Instead, ideally, before buying her a condo, but since that is too late, now you need to find out from counsel on aging and APS what is available within her means. Ideally before spending so much, you could have hired a lawyer to figure out the best situation given her financial situation. Not one person here said abandon mom. It's about not taking from your family to make mom comfortable and instead exploring the best situation available given her finances. Also, do not move her in. I could give a million reasons why, but just search on here.[/quote]
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