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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I posted a couple of weeks ago - about husband who starts yelling the moment I raise the issue of the state of family finances.

I am ready to divorce as this toxic environment is no longer bearable.

How did you guys get through this period when you have to pack, find new place, find mediator, find new school, forget the decade together which has good times, get through your SN kid’s homework, maintain declining health, keep your job and keep smiling at work? I’m not going to get therapy - not my thing.
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I am a divorced man. We had a collaborative divorce because cheating or abuse were not involved. We both needed to reduce the financial shocks so we actually lived together for 2 years post divorce so we could save money before going out separate ways.

In your case that's probably not an option..I have heard though that women do quite well post divorce they are not as affected mentally the way men are. There is data out there that shows that a significant number of divorced men go downhill post divorce. So at least as a woman the odds are your side that you will be just fine. As a guy I lucked out I guess.[/quote]

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